recently had access to conversations and comments posted on facebook of people connected to me, that somehow conflicts with my way of thinking and things I believe. I must admit I do not consider myself a feminist at all bitter, but someone with some experience who has lived more of a life through my work as a teacher.
I went to college to study the career of my dreams and I have been a teacher for over 11 years, I have enjoyed my single life consciously and the fruits of my work on things like movies (more than twice a week), eating out, going to karaoke, travel, travel ... and other things typical of young and single. When I love, went out and enjoyed the things typical of couples without any fussiness or economic distress, for my money (well deserved) might cover it, and never went out with livers, which allowed us to share expenses is logical . Reached also the dream of depa own account that this dream brought. I lived healthily, working 12 hours a day (because I wanted to and could), going to the gym two hours a day and being with my parents Sundays.
always thought that by marrying many things would change, and eye do not consider myself a woman of the eighteenth century or a futuristic one, I believe and am convinced that times have changed and it helped a lot of my generation, for women My times are getting married or going along to 30 without fear, work very hard, have children or not, and, finally, if you want: Do not get married, and therefore are not prudish, nor have they passed the train or are old wrinkled and sad. Indeed I can assure you that my generation are taking the time.
Unfortunately, I have been observing a wave, something foul and it is ruining our achievements: The desperate twenties to marry and be the perfect housewife, who believe that having a child should stop working because otherwise the children may have future trauma and irreversible.
I am the daughter of a woman who has worked a lifetime, my mother, Edith, is a strong woman who even at age 63 still works, as you read: MY MOTHER STILL WORKING. And I, a woman of 36 years, I think a person without any trauma and loved by my mother, that although no action has been to my primary or my delivery of diplomas in high school, is happy and grateful for all the sacrifice she made for making me a woman of good, hard working man.
omit my father in this article because my subject is women.
Anyway, back to the subject, I am pleased to know that women of my generation, did not follow the rules set by society, each has followed his path to happiness and enjoy what life has given them, they assume your life happy with what they have without looking at the side and see the clock of time as something that marks the steps they should take.
I am a working woman, I have shifted my vocation to the correction of papers, study hard and take care of your house, yes, but in perspective, no claims or demands, because my husband, being smart and their times, working with household items, as it must in this century and by the fact that both share costs and responsibilities inherent in our common life.
Everyone knows what it's up to the house, and without the collaboration that is required is required when you want to live in harmony and order.
Sure, some will say: "Now, because you walk Honeymoon" and "sorry", I for 5th. year married, and died that little phrase such as cachosa, without mockery or irony, could say that mine is an eternal honeymoon, as it should be a marriage, right? When in groups, life changes in the measure that seeks mutual adaptation, but in essence we are the same and retain what we are as a contribution what we call "our life together."
Sure, I tell others: "Now, because you have children" excuse me, but I think that to have children there is nothing better than a solid couple, who are known, and is aware that a child will mean a new twist endeavor to adapt to that. Children must be the cherry on the ice, no gum or glue two people together because no cherry ice cream can also eat and enjoy, you can put another additive, perhaps a rich chocolate melted on top ... I do not know.
Children are a blessing, a life change for the better but should not be the cause of truncating nothing and less personal life of a woman who is satisfied with what has been achieved. The children should be given quality time, explain the circumstances of life, understand, are not fools. Children grow up, if parents know how to be good husbands (if they are breeding partner) but if it is alone or alone with a child in the world, children grow up well, if you know how satisfied with life (unlike mad or crazy looking for new partners or replacement) but being a professional, focusing on his new reality, and being responsible to the life he now shares with that being who, although he has not asked to come to the world, shares his life now.
Women want everything they have it all, does sacrifice? yes, but that's part of what each one wants for himself. Women have expanded their options, not necessarily have to marry and have children to feel complete. Now they can stay single or get married and have children, if they wish.
Nothing is written or regulated, pick your taste, what they want for themselves and go after it, without pressure or demands, just for fun, and enjoy all they have now, today is a good time to do so.
PD. SOLO PLEASURE TO CLARIFY THE TERM USED IN THIS POST AND BY RAE:
placer2.
1. m. Enjoyment, spiritual.
2. m. Satisfaction, pleasant sensation produced by the execution or suscepción of something like or pleasure.
3. m. Will, consent, approval.
1. loc. adv. With pleasure, with great satisfaction, without any impediment or pregnancy.
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